You've Already Won the Game Everyone Else Is Playing. Now What?

The mastermind for high-achievers who want something more than another revenue goal—a life that actually matters.

You've checked the boxes. Built the business. Hit the income milestones. Earned the recognition.

And somewhere along the way, you started asking a different question:

"Is this it?"

Not because you're ungrateful. You know you're fortunate. You've worked hard to get here.

But the game that used to excite you? It feels hollow now. The goals that once pulled you forward feel like obligations. You're winning at something that stopped mattering.

You want more.

Not more money for the sake of money. Not another vanity metric or external validation.

You want a life that challenges you, connects you, and leaves something behind.

You want to feel fully alive again—mentally, physically, spiritually.

You want to build something meaningful, be present with the people who matter, and push your own limits in ways that expand who you are.

And you want to do it without burning out.

You've proven you can achieve hard things alone. But you're done with the isolated grind. You know that the next chapter—the one that actually fulfills you—requires a different kind of support.

Welcome to FOURPM Mastermind & Misogi.

A Different Type of Mastermind.
A Different Type of Goal.

Most masterminds obsess over revenue and operational systems. FourPM is built for people who've already won that game and are ready to play a bigger one.

Over the next 12 months, you'll set and achieve four goals that matter:

Personal — The identity-based goals you've been putting off. The things you'd do even if no one was watching.

Professional — Not just income, but impact. The legacy-building work that lights you up.

Philanthropic — Contribution beyond yourself. Going into the world to do good, not just do well.

Physical — The foundation for everything else. A healthy mind in a healthy body.

And here's what makes this radically different:

You'll choose one goal to be your Misogi.

Your one year-defining challenge. The thing so difficult you're not sure you can complete it. The goal that will change how you see yourself and what you believe is possible.

Not for ego. For evolution.

This Is Your Invitation.

To go further. Farther. Faster.

Together.

With 8-12 extraordinary people who will challenge you, support you, and hold you accountable to becoming who you're capable of being.

Keep reading to see if FourPM is right for you.

"Misogi is not about physical accomplishment. It asks, what are you mentally and spiritually willing to put yourself through to be a better human?"

Each FOURPM participant will pick one of their goals to be their misogi.

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The Modern Misogi:

A Challenge That Reveals Who You Are

It's hard enough that you might fail. A genuine 50/50 shot. The kind of goal that makes you think:
"I don't know if I can actually do this."

It is not about external reward. You're doing it because of who it will make you become in the process of attempting it.

It changes how you see yourself. When you complete something you weren't sure was possible, everything else recalibrates.

Your Misogi doesn't have to be physical. It can be personal, professional, philanthropic, or physical—whichever arena calls you to grow.

The only requirements?

Make it hard. If you're certain you can do it, it's not a Misogi.

Don't die. We're expanding limits, not being reckless.

Choose something that matters to you. Not what impresses others. What transforms you.

What Does Misogi Mean?

For centuries, Japanese Samurai warriors practiced Misogi—a ritual of deliberate challenge designed to build mental clarity and self-knowledge. It was about confronting yourself with nowhere to hide.

Today, Misogi has evolved into something even more powerful—a year-defining challenge designed to expand your sense of what's possible.

Not a bucket list item. Not a performance for social media. 
A private reckoning with your own potential.

Most people live their entire lives never testing their true limits. They stay comfortable. They avoid the 50/50 risks. They protect their self-image by never putting it on the line.

Your Misogi is the antidote to that slow fade.

When you're the only one watching... When no one would know if you quit... And you still choose to keep going?

That's when you meet yourself.

And the person you meet is someone you can trust to do extraordinary things

Small Group Mastermind

8 - 12 High Quality People.
That's it.

Mastermind groups have grown to 50, 100, even 200 members. FourPM is intentionally kept small.

Real transformation doesn't happen in a crowd. It happens in deep accountability with people who actually know you.

Bi-Monthly In-Person

Every Other Month.
Face to Face.

Real connection doesn't happen on Zoom. It happens when you're in the room together—fully present, no distractions.

These sessions advance major goals, create breakthrough moments, and build the kind of trust that only comes from showing up in person.

1:1 Coaching Sessions

This Isn't Theory.

Each session delivers a research-backed system used by elite performers to sustain success without burning out.

Customized to you. Your goals. Your edge. Your next level.

Give More Than You Take

Commit to Supporting Others.

The defining trait of high-performing groups isn't individual talent—it's authentic commitment to each other's success.

In FourPM, commitment to the group comes before commitment to yourself. Everyone rises together.

Collective Intelligence

Better Decisions Through Diverse Perspectives.

Groups with balanced gender representation (40-60% women) consistently outperform through heightened social perceptiveness.

FourPM intentionally builds groups with this ratio—because the best answers emerge when different minds collaborate.

Kindness

Nothing Beats Kindness.

This group will push you. Challenge you. Take you further and farther than you thought possible.

Always with kindness. Because the hardest growth happens when you feel safe enough to be vulnerable.

IS FOURPM RIGHT FOR YOU? 

FourPM is for you if:

You're at a transition point where you want something more meaningful than your current success.

You want growth without burnout. Sustainable excellence, not redlining.

You're ready for more adventure, more presence with family, and different impact.

You've achieved hard things and now want to help others do the same.

You know community accelerates growth.

You're willing to be challenged—pushed with kindness, but without compromise.

FourPM is NOT for you if you're chasing goals for ego. If your Misogi is about impressing others rather than transforming yourself, this isn't your group.

The people who thrive here are hungry for growth, generous with support, and humble enough to admit they don't have all the answers.

If that's you, keep reading.

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MISOGI:

What Are Some Examples?

Your Misogi can be anything that challenges you to grow. Here's proof of the diversity—personal, professional, philanthropic, and physical goals that have transformed FourPM participants.

FourPM Participant Successes: 

  • Series A $140M raise.
  • Raise $25,000 for charity. 
  • Complete high school at 26.
  • Cycling "Everesting" attempt. 
  • Earn $200k annual income at 22.
  • Complete the 125km Gran Fondo. 
  • Date intentionally to find a partner.
  • Overcome fear of open water swimming.
  • Reclaim identity as an athlete by completing multiple races.
  • Transition career to C-suite role at new company.
  • Learn to speak conversational Russian to connect with partner's grandparents.
  • Launch beta version of alternative health app / website.
  • Pick up 100lbs of garbage while walking my dog (cumulative).
  • Commit to a 3 - 5 year career break to spend time with children.

I don't ask anything of participants I haven't done myself. Here's evidence that I understand what it takes to commit to something hard, uncertain, and transformative.

Graham's Own Past Misogis: 

  • 85km SUP around Richmond (5 attempts).
  • Son Doong Cave expedition (world's largest cave).
  • Cage dive with great white sharks.
  • Swim from Alcatraz in under 30 minutes.
  • Big Five Marathon run on an active game reserve.
  • Horseback safari in the Okavango Delta (Botswana).
  • Obtain corporate compensation of 12 weeks vacation, 30% salary increase + >100% bonus.
  • Certified High Performance Coach.
  • Launch Wild Walks Wilderness Coaching.
  • Launch Semper Leadership Certified Coaching.
  • Legally change & blend surname with my wife to demonstrate for my daughter what is possible.

I'M GRAHAM.

I Believe in You.

I love life deeply and live it to the extreme.

My purpose is to be a constant and expanding example of what is achievable. I am constantly seeking ways to experience more.

You can find me scaling mountain tops in the Pacific Northwest, exploring the world's largest cave in Vietnam, cage diving with great white sharks in South Africa, swimming from Alcatraz, running self-supported through the Himalayas, or galloping on horseback through Botswana's Okavango Delta.

I am a Certified High Performance Coach, the Founder of Wild Walks, and Founder of Semper Leadership Certified Coaching.

I create environments for success. Supporting the happiness, growth, and accomplishments of others gives me my greatest sense of fulfillment.

My 2026 FOURPM goals are:

  • Personal: Start a children's book series with my wife featuring wild animals we experience with our daughter. Modeled after the Little People, Big Dreams series.
  • Professional: $0 MRR to $25,000 MRR from digital course & product sales. (This is my Misogi.)
  • Philanthropic: Draft and introduce legislation prohibiting the hunting of sea wolves in British Columbia.
  • Physical: ~70km pack raft expedition in the Cassiar Mountains in northwestern BC.

Graham's Track Record:

  • 15 years coaching high performers through major life transitions
  • Coached Olympians transitioning to life after sport since 2010
  • Certified High Performance Coach since 2018
  • $2.5M raised for charity
  • Client CAGR = 12% - 26%
  • Led the marketing for the #1 fitness company in Western Canada
  • Consulted for the #1 international ski destination and #1 running race series in the world

"Graham didn't just save my life, he gave me a new one. I cannot believe his commitment to showing up for people."

 
FourPM, Wild Walks Participant

"I've achieved things I never even imagined. My life is better, happier. I'm grateful for Graham."

 
FourPM, 3x Wild Walks Participant

JOIN FOURPM Mastermind & Misogi

This Is an Invitation, Not a Sales Pitch.

FourPM is by application and invitation only.
The right group composition matters. For you and for every participant.

8-12 spots available for the cohort beginning late January 2026.

If what you've read resonates, let's have a conversation about whether this is the right fit for both of us.

Investment

In 2026, there are three investment tiers designed for different stages of leadership and desired level of support.

CORE is ideal for senior leaders wanting structure, accountability, and leadership rhythm.

PRO is designed for experienced executives seeking deeper immersion, embodiment, and the Wild Walks experience.

ELITE is built for founders and C-suite leaders who want organizational impact, expanded influence, and high-touch support.

We'll discuss which one aligns best with your goals during our conversation.

Next Steps

Applications close January 15, 2026.

  1. Complete the short application form below.
  2. Schedule a 30-minute discovery call.
  3. We'll discuss fit and determine the right investment tier for you.

If you're ready to go further, farther, faster—together—let's talk.

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The application takes 3 minutes.
The conversation takes 30.
The transformation takes 12 months.
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